Why are some people a natural high achiever and other struggle?
Why can some people get ahead in life seemingly without any effort?
And what is it about these people that you may be secretly envious of?
There was a time I asked myself these same questions regularly…
The Answer Is Not What You Think!
In a minute, the answer you’ll read about may surprise you. It might even upset some of you. The intelligent ones may scoff at it and say, “I’ve heard all this before”.
For them, nothing will change because their heads are too full of their own thoughts. There is no space to learn anything that could dramatically transform their life. Don’t be one of them…
Firstly, when it comes to people who usually achieve what they want…
It rarely has to do with what you think it is.
- It’s not because of their background…
- Their family or upbringing…
- Not even their “position” in life …
Because It Has More to Do With These Few Things…
…than with anything else.
Did you know that the psychology of today’s high achievers differs very little from those of men and women ages ago?
And did you know that, because of the world we live in, these few things are even more important than ever before?
Even though these 3 things are important…
There Is One Thing That Trumps Them All!
Do you want to know the 3 things that’s stopping you from being a high achiever?
When you blow away the smoke it’s simple…
The 3 things stopping you from being a High Achiever is…
- What you believe, (your mindset).
- Your ability to do the right things, (your skillset).
- What you do every day, (your habits).
One of the most effective ways to become successful in business and life is to master these 3 areas of your life. Follow the psychology of today’s high achievers and you’ll enjoy success beyond your wildest dreams.
When you understand and develop the right mindset, skillset and habits a massive weight will be lifted from your shoulders.
You’ll Be Able to Stand Up and Become Today’s High Achiever!
Let’s look at two well-known high achievers from the past and two from the present.
- Arnold Schwarzenegger. (The Terminator dude)
He had a few rules for success. The most important ones are… Trust yourself, Don’t be afraid to fail, Work your butt off.
- Dwayne Johnson (The Rock).
With only $7 in his pocket at age 23 he said he knew two things… “I’m broke as hell and one day I won’t be”.
His secret to success, Show up and outwork anyone. Be consistent. Pay attention to your audience. Earn respect.
- Sir Richard Branson (The Virgin Guy).
His secret to success. Enjoy what you’re doing. Be visible and standout. Create something you’re proud of.
- Oprah Winfrey. (The Queen of Media)
Her rise to fame was based on a few simple things… Clear sense of purpose. Make excellence your goal. Empower those around you. Be thankful for what you have.
Here’s What You Can Do Today
Based on my own successes and failures, and those of my clients, here’s what I think we can all learn from the psychology of today’s high achievers.
These 6 things have worked for Myra me. I’ve seen work for my clients and others. It’ll help you build a successful business and life.
Perhaps, when you think about it, you might want to start doing it too.
Be Clear on What You Want
Know what you want from your life, business and relationships. Without clarity how will you ever get where you want to go?
Be clear on your life and business dream. What do you want to be and what do you want your business to be like? What makes you happy? Know what you want and follow your heart, mind and skills.
Working will all kinds of clients made me realize how few people are really crystal clear on what they want and why they want it.
Get help if you need to… but get clear!
Take Action Immediately
Stop saying “I’m gonna do it”. Get it done even if you’re not fully ready. Especially start doing it when you’re not fully ready because then it’s easy to make changes as you go along.
Take risks, mess up, screw up. Fail and then grow beyond your wildest expectations. Because here’s the thing, you can either take risks or you can live with regrets.
The Law of Attraction works when the Law of Action precedes it.
Become Obsessed With What You Do
This will lead you to create the life and business you truly want. It’ll drive you forward in the face of all kinds of obstacles.
The only thing that works is Work. So work hard doing the right things. To use an uncommon cliché… Work Hard AND Smart. Get more done in 20-hours per week than others do in 80.
You see when you’re obsessed your passion will pull you and no one will have to push you! And then you’ll willingly do whatever it takes to achieve your dreams.
Refuse to be Average
Often, I hear from clients, “I want this, that and the other thing… but it’s ok if I only get this one thing.”
You can be great if you choose to be. Become great. Master what you do and how you live. Fully immerse yourself in your niche, your industry and your life.
Set a Minimum Performance Standard and vow never to go below that.
Provide Massive Value
Get out of obscurity and be visible. Put yourself out there and live your dream. Give more value than anyone else and you’ll earn more than anyone else.
Believe in YOU even when others don’t. Usually friends, family and those who “want what’s best for you” doesn’t have a clue!
Trust in yourself and your ability to make your dreams come true.
It’s your life, believe in it and make it happen.
Neither your family, friends nor your kind-hearted Aunt Mary will make your life a success… Only you can do it when you believe you can!
This One Thing Will Make THE BIGGEST Difference
This is No Secret; it’s been around for ages and yet so few are actually good at it.
Long, long ago there was a very wealthy man… Today he would’ve been worth around $340 Billion. By far the richest man in the world…
Perhaps you’ve heard of him?
He said, “the ability to deal with people is as purchasable a commodity as sugar and coffee”
And then he said this…
“And I’ll pay more for that ability than for any other under the sun”
So What’s This One Thing He’s Talking About?
Well, according to John D. Rockefeller it is the Ability To Deal With People!
Throughout the ages the ability to communicate, lead, influence, persuade and partner (CLIPP™) with people has been the Biggest Factor in being a High Achiever in life, business and relationships!
It’s the One Thing that’ll change everything… I call it…
Sales Influence… the ability to help others decide what’s right for them.
As you think about it, you’ll realize that it’s the key to your success, wealth and happiness.
As you know there are two kinds of people who’ll read this…
Those who realize the power of this message and act on it and those that won’t.
Most people I meet want it… and some don’t!
Who do you think displays the psychology of today’s high achiever?
Who do you think will become today’s high achiever?
Which kind are you?
The kind who wants success, wealth and happiness or are you the other kind?